Craigslist Vs Adult Dating Websites To Find Threesome Partners
While trying to spice up their love life, many couples try to find new and interesting things to incorporate into the bedroom. Some are content with adding toys or trying different positions. However, for some none of that will satisfy, and decide the best option is to add another person.
The couple decide to turn to the adventurous and exciting world of threesomes and foursomes. Some people might find it nerve wrecking, or even downright scary, to think about adding another person to their private lives. This does not have to be the case.
Adding someone new can be exhilarating and refreshing, something my husband and I have tried on multiple occasions and would recommend to any couple looking for a new experience. It can be hard to meet people in real life.
For one thing, some couples are afraid to mention it to their friends. They fear being viewed as one of “those” people who are probably swimming in STDs and are only doing this in an act of rebellion in the midst of a mid-life crisis in the eyes of those around them.
Meeting people in real life can be hard, which is why most couples turn to the internet. As with anything on the internet, it is important to be safe. There are numerous websites out there devoted to matching people together.
However, a large number of inexperienced people tend to flock towards the bazaar of the web: Craigslist. As we did at first by placing ads like craigslist couple seeking woman or married couple seeks girlfriend.
Sure, Craigslist can be helpful when looking for a new sofa or trying to get rid of that boat your husband spent too much money on and never uses, but it is not a great site for picking up dates – or sexual partners!
For one thing, there are plenty of scams and creeps on Craigslist. You ever hear stories of a vulnerable girl going to pick something up from a Craigslist seller, and almost being lured into their basement? Or getting a new mattress, only to find it full of bedbugs?
It’s the danger of buying from strangers hiding behind a screen, and it is no difference when looking for partners. Now, don’t get me wrong. There are probably plenty of good, misguided people looking for love on Craigslist’s classified boards.
In fact, my husband and I originally used Craigslist while looking for a third partner, our ad “craigslist couple seeking woman” pulled in plenty of replies, just not the ones we wanted, and you need to think about health and safety on Craigslist.
We did meet with a couple of very nice girls, one rather young and rebellious, another around my age who was recently divorced. They were both perfectly friendly, but we had no chemistry and did not move further after meeting.
We do not consider those failures, because we learned more about what we wanted. Any experience in that sense is a good one. But plenty weren’t as pleasant. The dangers of Craigslist greatly out measure the few successes you might find.
For every decent person, there are hundreds of liars, scammers, and even dangerous people. Of course, like anywhere on the internet, it is important to never give out personal information to people you do not know.
However, if you’re looking for threesome partners, you are looking for someone you can meet and need to trust, it is much more difficult than just passing off money and walking away with a new game console.
While looking for a threesome partner, my husband and I stumbled across a multitude of interesting individuals. One woman seemed great: she knew a lot of information, had experience in threesomes, and was into a lot of the same stuff we were.
We had been talking for a while before she decided to mention that she was prostitute. She thought the two of us were clients, and were only posing as a couple looking for a threesome to get through Craigslist, which was cracking down on people selling illegal services.
Needless to say, we were not interested in spending money and breaking the law for sex, and moved on. While that was awkward, it was far from the worse experience we had.
From our ad craigslist couple seeking woman we met a woman one day who introduced herself as Daisy. We got to talking, and Daisy was really nice. A little “freakier” than either of us, but something about that was exciting. We made a plan to meet at a local coffee shop.
Both of us were nervous, shaking at a back table, clutching our coffee cups and silently praying that none of our friends see us. Then, in comes this tall blonde. A little more filled out then expected, and sporting a tight blue dress.
With hairy, manly legs. Daisy turned around and smile, and at that second I think both mine and my husband’s chins hit the table. Daisy had never once mentioned the fact that she was born a male, yes she was intact a transexual and had only just begun her transformation.
Now, we have nothing against transgenders, in fact we still speak to Daisy from time to time, but the two of us were so stressed and anxious at that point we told her we couldn’t go through with this. She eventually met a really great man, so in the end everything worked out.
Again, awkward, but not completely terrible. Daisy, however, was probably the most success we got out of Craigslist. The next woman we met was pretty tame, and older than us. Still, we decided to give her a shot. She seemed honest enough and we video chatted with her before meeting.
It was an instant connection, and we thought we were going to go through with it. Now, me being a total worrywart, I wanted to do this as safely as possible. I told this woman we would not do anything without her getting checked for STDs.
All of a sudden her face turned bright red, and she told us that she was hoping we wouldn’t ask, because its been hard for her to find anyone ever since she got herpes. Yikes!
We quickly found another girl and everything seemed great. She was level-headed, adventurous, and very good looking too. Everything finally seemed to be going our way, until this older woman came storming into the coffee shop, yelling and screaming.
Turns out they were partners, and this was the third time she caught the other woman going off to meet people from the internet. She yelled at us, called us disgusting pigs, and told her partner she was a slut and deserved to die alone.
Now, we felt bad, because the girl was dumped and humiliated in public, but we couldn’t go through with this with someone we couldn’t trust not to be honest with us. Worn out and hopeless, the hubby and I stopped for a while.
We talked things over and decided our ad craigslist couple seeking woman on Craigslist wasn’t the best option. Then, we thought of something completely wacky: what about dating sites? Yes, dating sites. The ones you see cheesy yet heartwarming commercials for all over daytime television.
The ones where couples meet for awkward blind dates before breaking it off and never speaking again. The ones promising you’ll find “the one” and that they’ve lead to the most long-term marriages or most third-anniversaries or didn’t allow people with crazy mothers to log on. You know, the important stuff.
Now, we had never used a dating site before, and after doing some research we found a few adult dating websites which are aimed at people who want to meet other people for sex, including threesomes and foursomes.
We started with a couple of free adult dating sites and found that a number of others were using it to find threesome partners. So, we signed up, saying we were a couple seeking a woman to join us in a threesome.
But we found the free sites were not so good as they were full of scammers and fake profiles, so after a while we found two great adult dating sites that you had to pay to join, but the fee was well worth the price.
Completely intoxicated by the quick results, we moved on to another site, and set up to meet people. It turns out that, for some reason, these sites seemed to repel the crazies that Craigslist attracted.
Everyone we met was nice and normal, and some sites even sorted through people and got rid of those who didn’t fit in with your wants or personalities.
We found a total of eight serious partners on there after weeding through a number of potential ones. These eight weren’t just one time flings: they were long, stable relationships, the longest going on two years now.
We still meet up with new people from time to time, and have met a few one-time partners. Overall, it has been a great experience with adult dating websites. They are safer, and the people on them are more serious about it.
Everyone seemed more experienced too, they knew what they liked and what they were looking for, and no one was surprised when we asked for STD test results or anything else.
We found people through both the free and paid sites, but would highly recommend the paid adult dating sites to anyone looking for a threesome because people who pay to join a dating service are serious about what they want.
But any weirdo can join the free sites and pretend to be someone they are not. Thats why free sites like Craigslist is not such a good place to find sexual partners.