Craigslist Couple Seeking Woman Just Didn’t Work

Craigslist Vs Adult Dating Websites To Find Threesome Partners

Three Way Adult DatingWhile trying to spice up their love life, many couples try to find new and interesting things to incorporate into the bedroom. Some are content with adding toys or trying different positions. However, for some none of that will satisfy, and decide the best option is to add another person.

The couple decide to turn to the adventurous and exciting world of threesomes and foursomes. Some people might find it nerve wrecking, or even downright scary, to think about adding another person to their private lives. This does not have to be the case.

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Adding someone new can be exhilarating and refreshing, something my husband and I have tried on multiple occasions and would recommend to any couple looking for a new experience. It can be hard to meet people in real life.

For one thing, some couples are afraid to mention it to their friends. They fear being viewed as one of “those” people who are probably swimming in STDs and are only doing this in an act of rebellion in the midst of a mid-life crisis in the eyes of those around them.

Meeting people in real life can be hard, which is why most couples turn to the internet. As with anything on the internet, it is important to be safe. There are numerous websites out there devoted to matching people together.

However, a large number of inexperienced people tend to flock towards the bazaar of the web: Craigslist. As we did at first by placing ads like craigslist couple seeking woman or married couple seeks girlfriend.

Sure, Craigslist can be helpful when looking for a new sofa or trying to get rid of that boat your husband spent too much money on and never uses, but it is not a great site for picking up dates – or sexual partners!

PersonalsFor one thing, there are plenty of scams and creeps on Craigslist. You ever hear stories of a vulnerable girl going to pick something up from a Craigslist seller, and almost being lured into their basement? Or getting a new mattress, only to find it full of bedbugs?

It’s the danger of buying from strangers hiding behind a screen, and it is no difference when looking for partners. Now, don’t get me wrong. There are probably plenty of good, misguided people looking for love on Craigslist’s classified boards.

In fact, my husband and I originally used Craigslist while looking for a third partner, our ad “craigslist couple seeking woman” pulled in plenty of replies, just not the ones we wanted, and you need to think about health and safety on Craigslist.

We did meet with a couple of very nice girls, one rather young and rebellious, another around my age who was recently divorced. They were both perfectly friendly, but we had no chemistry and did not move further after meeting.

We do not consider those failures, because we learned more about what we wanted. Any experience in that sense is a good one. But plenty weren’t as pleasant. The dangers of Craigslist greatly out measure the few successes you might find.

For every decent person, there are hundreds of liars, scammers, and even dangerous people. Of course, like anywhere on the internet, it is important to never give out personal information to people you do not know.

However, if you’re looking for threesome partners, you are looking for someone you can meet and need to trust, it is much more difficult than just passing off money and walking away with a new game console.

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While looking for a threesome partner, my husband and I stumbled across a multitude of interesting individuals. One woman seemed great: she knew a lot of information, had experience in threesomes, and was into a lot of the same stuff we were.

We had been talking for a while before she decided to mention that she was prostitute. She thought the two of us were clients, and were only posing as a couple looking for a threesome to get through Craigslist, which was cracking down on people selling illegal services.

Craigslist Couple Seeking WomanCraigslist AdNeedless to say, we were not interested in spending money and breaking the law for sex, and moved on. While that was awkward, it was far from the worse experience we had.

Blonde TransvestiteFrom our ad craigslist couple seeking woman we met a woman one day who introduced herself as Daisy. We got to talking, and Daisy was really nice. A little “freakier” than either of us, but something about that was exciting. We made a plan to meet at a local coffee shop.

Both of us were nervous, shaking at a back table, clutching our coffee cups and silently praying that none of our friends see us. Then, in comes this tall blonde. A little more filled out then expected, and sporting a tight blue dress.

With hairy, manly legs. Daisy turned around and smile, and at that second I think both mine and my husband’s chins hit the table. Daisy had never once mentioned the fact that she was born a male, yes she was intact a transexual and had only just begun her transformation.

Now, we have nothing against transgenders, in fact we still speak to Daisy from time to time, but the two of us were so stressed and anxious at that point we told her we couldn’t go through with this. She eventually met a really great man, so in the end everything worked out.

Again, awkward, but not completely terrible. Daisy, however, was probably the most success we got out of Craigslist. The next woman we met was pretty tame, and older than us. Still, we decided to give her a shot. She seemed honest enough and we video chatted with her before meeting.

It was an instant connection, and we thought we were going to go through with it. Now, me being a total worrywart, I wanted to do this as safely as possible. I told this woman we would not do anything without her getting checked for STDs.

All of a sudden her face turned bright red, and she told us that she was hoping we wouldn’t ask, because its been hard for her to find anyone ever since she got herpes. Yikes!

We quickly found another girl and everything seemed great. She was level-headed, adventurous, and very good looking too. Everything finally seemed to be going our way, until this older woman came storming into the coffee shop, yelling and screaming.

Turns out they were partners, and this was the third time she caught the other woman going off to meet people from the internet. She yelled at us, called us disgusting pigs, and told her partner she was a slut and deserved to die alone.

Now, we felt bad, because the girl was dumped and humiliated in public, but we couldn’t go through with this with someone we couldn’t trust not to be honest with us. Worn out and hopeless, the hubby and I stopped for a while.

you-me-friend-threesomeWe talked things over and decided our ad craigslist couple seeking woman on Craigslist wasn’t the best option. Then, we thought of something completely wacky: what about dating sites? Yes, dating sites. The ones you see cheesy yet heartwarming commercials for all over daytime television.

The ones where couples meet for awkward blind dates before breaking it off and never speaking again. The ones promising you’ll find “the one” and that they’ve lead to the most long-term marriages or most third-anniversaries or didn’t allow people with crazy mothers to log on. You know, the important stuff.

Now, we had never used a dating site before, and after doing some research we found a few adult dating websites which are aimed at people who want to meet other people for sex, including threesomes and foursomes.

We started with a couple of free adult dating sites and found that a number of others were using it to find threesome partners. So, we signed up, saying we were a couple seeking a woman to join us in a threesome.

But we found the free sites were not so good as they were full of scammers and fake profiles, so after a while we found two great adult dating sites that you had to pay to join, but the fee was well worth the price.

Completely intoxicated by the quick results, we moved on to another site, and set up to meet people. It turns out that, for some reason, these sites seemed to repel the crazies that Craigslist attracted.

Everyone we met was nice and normal, and some sites even sorted through people and got rid of those who didn’t fit in with your wants or personalities.

We found a total of eight serious partners on there after weeding through a number of potential ones. These eight weren’t just one time flings: they were long, stable relationships, the longest going on two years now.

MFF ThreesomeWe still meet up with new people from time to time, and have met a few one-time partners. Overall, it has been a great experience with adult dating websites. They are safer, and the people on them are more serious about it.

Everyone seemed more experienced too, they knew what they liked and what they were looking for, and no one was surprised when we asked for STD test results or anything else.

We found people through both the free and paid sites, but would highly recommend the paid adult dating sites to anyone looking for a threesome because people who pay to join a dating service are serious about what they want.

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But any weirdo can join the free sites and pretend to be someone they are not. Thats why free sites like Craigslist is not such a good place to find sexual partners.

Health and safety when having Sex with Strangers

Many married couples visit dating websites with the primary intention of spicing up their sex life. These couples are normally very open-minded.

The diversity and the freedom provided by these websites present them with opportunities to try out different kinds of relationships. On your way to your sexual fantasy in the dating websites, you will find a threesome, a foursome or a swinger date.

Safe SexEvidently, sexual sharing is doable and has been happening for a long time. It works but only under sensible guidelines. To begin with, you need to reckon that married couples are responsible adults.

At the most fundamental level, they are committed to love relationships with their partners, their children, and careers. In fact, they are normal people like you and me. You have met them in your life.

Because married couples that practice online dating are normal people, their safety must come first if they are to offer devotion to their families.

Some ground rules for online dating may help with health and safety when having sex with strangers. Here is how:

1. Watch Out for Red Flags
If you are amazed at the perfect teeth and those glistening eyes in their pictures, I hate bursting your bubble, but they may be lurking for their next prey.

So, if you are suspicious, ask yourself something like this, why would this person post a deceptive photo about themselves? Always be a sentinel for a possible scam. Protect yourself from such people.

2. Do not share your contact details
Many couples have been scammed and robbed of money because they shared their contact details in online dating sites. Hackers are always disguised out there, looking for their next victim.

Through your contact details, hackers can find your personal details such as your location, your bank details, etc. Once they get such information into their hands, they can blackmail you with the intention of stripping you of your money.

3. Meet in social places
It is always wise that if you finally meet someone you like, make arrangements to meet in social places such as pubs and to know one another.

This has the advantage of keeping you safe until you can trust your date. Meeting in secluded places will certainly make you susceptible to crimes such as date rapes and other forms of violence.

Use A Condom4. Use protection when having sex
You have finally trusted your new date; you have gone out on a few dates, and now you need to take your fantasy to the next level.

As a couple, your health should always be paramount as you seek exciting erotic experiences.

As you engage in a threesome or a foursome, always remember to take care of sexually transmitted illnesses such as HIV/AIDS and wear a condom.

Because your sexual fantasies always begin with drinking parties and erotic sprees, always remember that your marriage and family comes first. Their happiness depends on you. Therefore, make healthy life choices such as proper use of both male and female condoms. This will help you from contracting sexually transmitted diseases.

5. Communication
When practicing a three way or a foursome, communication is always a prerequisite for the emotional contentment of the participants. Communication begins with your partner when planning for the sexual event. This ensures that you and your partner are on the same page.

You should share your fears to avoid leaving each other out during the exercise. Communication is important in setting boundaries in a threesome because every detail of the act matters and could cause a lot of emotional damage to your partner if certain acts go overboard.

CommunicationBecause you are bringing a third and possibly a fourth person in your sexual play, communication is important in ensuring your safety. Remember that you do not know them very well and it is always good to play it safe.

Again, make sure you are prepared with latex gloves, condoms, and dental dams. Also, communicate with your date that you and your marriage partner always play it safe so that they do not get hurt when you put on the protection.

These are a few of the precautions you can take when heading down the road to a threesome. It can be a pleasant adventure for you and your partner as you make your erotic fantasy a reality.

Our Holiday Romance for Four

Our Spanish Fling

The word exhilarating can be misconstrued or misleading, but in reality this is what really happened during our short, yet memorable trip to Spain. When the famous American author Ernest Hemingway wrote ‘The Sun Also Rises,’ he provided his readers with an insight into the laid-back lifestyle of the Spanish.

Sexy DancingDrinking, dancing, fiestas, and sex figured prominently in Hemingway’s presentation of the Spanish. Decades later, it wouldn’t be wrong to suggest the Spanish enjoy their entertainment just as much as they did decades ago. Yes, Spain is marked for its crowded beaches and the sangria-sipping Spainards watching bull fights and flamencos.

When the Vengaboys sang the song “We’re going to Ibiza,” little did they think that Ibiza would ignite the curiosity of the millions of travelers with their eloquent diction. It wouldn’t be hard for the fun-loving holiday explorers to articulate the reason for their doing so. Ibiza is a tiny island located 93 miles off the coast of the city of Valencia in the Mediterranean Sea.

This island is a much-sought-after destination for tourists from all over the world, and thanks to the Vengaboys, the island has become even more popular. Ibiza is known for its lively nightlife, and picturesque, yet tranquilant, yoga retreats and beaches. When such a lovely place beckoned us, my wife and I, decided that we would make Spain our holiday destination.

Time To Relax And Enjoy Spain

We’ve been married for a while now, and though we’ve been on numerous vacations during this time, but mainly in the USA like New York, we never had this sparkling look in our eyes before as we headed off to Spain. Once there, we could see perpetual dancing on the streets and in clubs, and drinking in bars and restaurants.

In Madrid, my wife and I decided to explore the city’s history. The Palacio Real or the Royal Palace as it is popularly known, retains its pristine beauty. It was here that we ran into Margarida; a young Spanish woman in her mid-twenties. Margarida was to be our guide and when we invited her to join us to San Sebastian, she asked if she could bring her boyfriend Juan Jose with her on our trip.

One advantage of having a foursome is that it removes monotony and imbibes a sense of curiosity of the unknown. My wife and I have been together for a few years now and every trip we’ve been on together had been exciting. However, with Margarida and Juan for company, the trip took a new meaning.

Just Chilling In The Sun

San SebastianWe went by road to San Sebastian, which is in the north of the country close to the border with France. The city is in itself a pictureque locale. Amidst steep cliffs and islands, the city has one of the finest beaches in whole of Europe called La Concha. For the whole of the next four days, during the day we would walk along the curved beach holding each others hands and tell jokes that sometimes bordered on absurdity, or throw pranks at one another.

We would also go surfing and later eat Spanish food in restaurants nearby. As couples, there was always going to be some sexual advances and while the four of us did have our reservations initially, these were knocked off and we began to explore new avenues to rekindle our nights together.

The sex between us four was out of this world, sometimes we lasted for hours without even realising the time we had just spent together just holding and touching each other. I would lye and watch my wife kissing another woman and then turn around and have sex with another man. To me it just turned me on so much, and I know my wife was in heaven to have three people kiss and hold her all night.

We would swap partners and sing and dance under the night sky and then swim in the shallow waters near the beach. It was a nice feeling as both my wife and I began to understand our partners intensively. Once, I had to console Margarida because of which, we found ourselves in a not-too-comfortable position.

Time For Wine

Bull FightOnce during our holidays, I took Margarida to a bull fight dressed in a tuxedo while Jenny and Juan went out to explore the city. On our way back to the hotel, we stopped by at a bar to have a drink. My wife does not drink and to have a pretty woman like Margarida share the table with me over drinks was an experience. She was comfortable with me.

That experience of having Margarida beside me at times during the holiday was exhilarating. The sudden dalliance or having another person beside you to confide in or console you is a different experience altogether. Through our consented agreement, we were able to explore a host of new avenues never explored before.

All these were largely due to the ambience and the picturesque landscapes that Spain offered. Most importantly, all these were done on mutually accepted terms so that no one walked out with a guilty conscience. So, the next time you plan a holiday, think of all the possibilities of a foursome on a holiday in Spain.

Threesomes Are Our Spice Of Life

Three Way Fun

Whenever we feel that the flames in our sexual relationship are dying, my wife and I usually arrange for a threesome as a way of igniting the marital passions and enlivening and fortifying our marriage.

Sexual SparksHowever, we make sure to discuss everything together. Arranging for a successful threesome requires effort. There is need for more communication in threesomes and foursomes than would otherwise be the case in twosomes.

First we always make sure we that discuss and are clear about what we want in the sexual experience. Transparency and honesty is necessary in any marriage or relationship.

We also discuss with our prospective partners about, for example, how long will it take whether to have sex or just foreplay and whether kissing would be okay. We have always preferred to stick to a threesome or foursome because we find orgies, that’s, encounters of more than four partners a bit chaotic.

The best place to get prospective partners is the internet and not Craigslist as we informed some time ago, but thats another story I shall write about soon. There are websites which are dedicated to connecting swingers singles and couples and I will go into detail about these sites in a later post as well.

Strangers Not Friends 

It is always better to avoid friends when looking for people to engage with in threesomes because in case things don’t go well, it would be much easier to cope with a stranger than with someone you are tied up with, our first 3some happened in New York with a stranger and thats how we like it, with new people that we don’t know. 

We also make sure we practice safe sex by being aware of the medical history of our prospective partners and ascertaining that things such as condoms, deodorants and dental products are nearby. Oral hygiene is necessary for everyone.

So every person has to make sure he has good breath and good body odour so that he/she does not become a turn-off to potential partners.

Cleanliness Is Essential

We always advice our prospective partners to make sure they have showered and are well groomed before they come for the party. Appropriate perfumes, cologne or body spray can make a big difference.

Sexy DeodorantWe also ensure that everybody agrees on not pulling any tricks such as removing the condom during the act. Keeping things safe is important. With safety taken care of it becomes possible to enjoy the experience without having to worry.

We always start the session by ensuring there is a light hearted atmosphere. Playing a game such as chess or bridge while sipping wine or beer which helps set up the mood and makes people more relaxed. This is gradually followed by caressing and undressing as everyone slowly plunges into action.

I always ensure to my wife that these swinging experiences are not going to be a replacement to our one-on-one intimacy. So we often set up rules to follow and are honest towards each other.

I make sure that whenever I am participating in a threesome or foursome encounter, she is also around. I also make sure that I never do anything during threesome or foursome sex that I have never done before with her.

It is actually not possible to satisfy another sexually over a long period of time as in marriage. So swinging adds excitement in a marriage and can save it from ruin. So rather than have an illicit extramarital adventure behind your partners back it is better that you both get involved in an otherwise legitimate affair.

This has always served for me and my wife the double function of satisfying our inner passions as well as doing away with any guilt that would have otherwise resulted from having an illicit love affair.

SwingersWe have been able to develop greater trust towards each other, besides learning new sexual techniques which has brought liveliness and satisfaction in what could have otherwise become a dreary marital coitus. 

However, one should try to do away with the guilty feeling that inhibits one from wanting to experiment sexually.

Sex Is Good For You

Such a feeling is as a result of the misconceptions that we are all brought up with since science has shown that experimenting sexually is not only okay but could boost our psychological and physiological health when done in the right way.

There’s everything to be gained, therefore, and nothing to be lost when a threesome or swinging excursion or wife swapping is carried out in the right way. When not done rightly, on the other hand it could lead one into a world of inhibited sexual adventure and subsequent disenchantment with one’s marriage.

Our First Threesome In New York

New York Three Way

MFF Threesome

My wife and I recently went to New York for a long romantic weekend break and we stayed in a very plush hotel which my wife loved. To say that she was delighted with my choice of hotel would be an understatement. So that night when we unpacked our cases and sat on our huge kings size bed drinking champaign we both got a little tipsy and ended up having great sex for most of the night.

The following day involved all the usual sight seeing and shopping trips to all the big stores, but the evening bought a very pleasant and unexpected meeting with a beautiful woman who was also staying in the same hotel. We met Susan in the lounge bar sitting on her own with a laptop and a glass of wine. We all got on extremely well and retired to a more comfortable seating area and chatted for hours.

Back To My Room For Wine Excuse

Susan then suggested we go back to her room to finish off a bottle of red wine she had bought earlier in the day. To my surprise and I must admit I really did not see this coming, but my wife started kissing Susan as soon as we entered her room, the next thing I knew they were both naked and lying on the bed this is when they both demanded I join them.

It took me all of five seconds to strip naked and jump on the bed with them, and from there on we tried everything and every position you could think of. The sex was out of this world and the fact my wife enjoyed every moment of it just turned me on even more. I won’t go into too much detail for my first post, but needless to say we met up the following night and it happened all over again.

For our very first three way it went extremely well and it just opened up so many other sexual avenues for us. If this chance meeting had never happened who would know how our sex lives would be now, a lot less exciting I’m sure. My wife and myself are so grateful for the day we met Susan, it really has changed our lives for the better, and we still meet up with Susan on occasions.

It Worked For Us

I guess it worked out great for us, and we still have 3somes with other people on a weekly basis, but after hearing stories from others who have tried a three way and it has not worked for them or it has made things worse, then I would say put some serious thought into it and if one partner is in a doubt then don’t do it at all.

Three Way MFF

You both have to be comfortable with sharing each other with another person, you have to be confident that this is something you want to do, you can’t let jealous thoughts enter your head because if they do it will cause more harm than good.

Basically use common sense and approach it light heartedly at first and once it looks like the threesome is going to happen then put serious thoughts and questions into it. You both will need to talk it through together and both need to be certain it’s what you both want.

Talk About It

Ok it didn’t happen like that with us because it was not planned, but after our first threesome we did talk a lot about having lots more with different people, and we both really wanted to try it, so yes for us it worked out great. And if you talk about it with your partner yours should as well. Try looking online at adult dating websites, these are great for finding three way partners.